We all reach a point where old routines stop working. The habits that once felt comfortable can begin to weigh us down, keeping us stuck or distracted. I know this feeling well. I like to reorganize my lifestyle often—not by making one big change, but by rethinking how I define myself, what I value, and how I spend my time.
In this inside look, I’m sharing the exact steps I take: how I identify who I am, create a vision for my life, set meaningful goals, and reshape my habits and routines so they support the path I want to walk.
1. Identify Self
The first step is asking myself: Who am I right now, and who do I want to be?
- I Am Statements → Affirmations like “I am strong” or “I am peaceful” help me focus on who I want to embody.
- Values → I reflect on what I value most: health, time, creativity, relationships. These became my compass.
- Interests & Skills → Hobbies and skills aren’t extras or luxuries—they are fuel for joy and growth.
- Fears → I have to make friends with my fears, understanding when they are holding me back and when they are keeping me safe.
2. Create Lifestyle
With my values and identity clear, I begin shaping a vision for how I want to live. Like a vision board but using the 8 dimensions of wellness as a framework.
- Expectations vs. Reality → I compare how I want life to feel versus how it actually looks.
- Visualizing Details → I picture the flow of my days, the energy of my home, the balance of my emotional, physical, social, and financial worlds.
- Priorities: I asked; Where do I need to invest my time, energy, and resources? Choosing priorities helps me cut out distractions and focus on what truly matters. The top 3 priorities go to the top of the list.
3. Setting Goals
A vision is powerful, but it only becomes real when it’s broken into goals. This step turns my ideas into something I can act on.
- Write Them Out : I use my journal to describe each goal in detail. Writing forces me to see if it truly matters.
- Test the Goal : If my energy drops while writing, I know it isn’t worth the effort. If I felt butterflies, I know it is aligned.
- Stay Flexible : Some goals evolve as I grow. Instead of chasing perfection, I chase what brings purpose and energy.
4. Identify Habits & Routines
Once the goals are clear, I turn to the habits and routines that will carry them. Habits are the structure of daily life, and routines are how we string them together.
- Identify Habits → I notice where my time really goes and how old patterns are holding me back.
- Replace Habits → I swap habits that drain me for ones that support my values.
- Macro Routines → I build a weekly framework that gives space for health, family, creativity, and rest.
Why Macro Routines Matter
- Clarity → No more wondering where my time goes.
- Balance → Built-in space for hobbies and rest.
- Alignment → My daily actions match my values and goals.
- Productivity → I get more done without burnout.
Reorganizing my lifestyle isn’t about getting it exactly right, it’s about realigning with the season I’m in. By identifying myself honestly, creating a clear vision, setting meaningful goals, and reshaping my habits, I can rebuild a lifestyle that feels purposeful and sustainable.
I also recognize that there are moments when I will fall back into old patterns or lose sight of the good that surrounds me. When that happens, revisiting my notes brings me back to center—a reminder of how far I’ve come.
Use the Lifestyle Organizer to write down your own vision.
