Self-Actualization | Day 10

The highest tier is self-actualization, which includes realizing one's full potential, personal growth, and a sense of purpose. It's also associated with moments of transcendence or self-transcendence, where individuals go beyond their individual concerns and experience a deeper connection to the world.



Balance in the highest tier of Maslow's Hierarchy involves striving for personal growth, self-fulfillment, and a deep connection to life's meaning and purpose. It's an ongoing journey of self-discovery and self-actualization that can lead to a sense of fulfillment, contentment, and inner peace. Balancing this tier is about aligning your life with your core values and aspirations while contributing positively to the world around you.

In Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, spirituality is not explicitly categorized as a separate tier; however, elements of spirituality and self-actualization are often intertwined in the highest tier of the hierarchy. 

Spirituality and self-actualization are related concepts, but they have distinct meanings and implications, let's explore.




  • Refers to the process of becoming the best version of oneself, realizing one's full potential, and achieving personal growth and fulfillment.
  • Self-actualization involves a strong focus on personal development, creativity, authenticity, and the pursuit of one's unique talents and passions.
  • It is often associated with characteristics such as self-awareness, self-acceptance, autonomy, and the ability to make choices aligned with one's values and aspirations.
  • While self-actualization can include spiritual growth for some individuals, it is not limited to religious or metaphysical experiences and can be pursued in secular contexts as well.



  • Spirituality is a broad and multifaceted concept that pertains to a person's connection with the transcendent or divine, often within a religious or philosophical framework.
  • It involves seeking a deeper understanding of the meaning and purpose of life, as well as exploring questions related to existence, morality, and the nature of reality.
  • Spirituality can be expressed through religious practices, meditation, prayer, mindfulness, and other forms of inner exploration.
  • It often involves a sense of interconnectedness with the universe, a higher power, or a divine presence.
  • Spirituality can be deeply personal and subjective, with individuals having varying beliefs and experiences.

Achieving balance in the self-actualization and transcendence tier involves several key aspects:


  • Self-Exploration: Engage in self-exploration through practices like meditation, mindfulness, journaling, or therapy. This can help you understand your values, passions, and what brings meaning to your life.

  • Pursue Passions: Identify and pursue your passions and interests. Engaging in activities that align with your deepest values and interests can bring a sense of fulfillment and balance.

  • Set Meaningful Goals: Set meaningful and challenging goals that reflect your values and contribute to your personal growth. These goals should go beyond material success and focus on your overall well-being and purpose.

  • Practice Mindfulness: Cultivate mindfulness and presence in your daily life. Mindfulness practices can help you stay grounded, appreciate the present moment, and find deeper meaning in your experiences.

  • Connect with Others: Seek meaningful connections and relationships with others who share your values and interests. Building a supportive community can enhance your sense of belonging and purpose.

  • Contribute to Others: Find ways to give back and contribute to the well-being of others. Acts of kindness and service can be deeply fulfilling and connect you to a sense of purpose.

  • Cultivate Gratitude: Practice gratitude for the small and significant aspects of your life. Recognizing and appreciating the positives can enhance your overall sense of well-being.

  • Embrace Transcendence: Explore moments of transcendence or awe. These experiences can offer a sense of connection to something larger than yourself, whether it's through nature, art, or spiritual practices.


Meditation can take various forms and doesn't necessarily require a specific posture. The objective is to engage your five senses, quiet the "monkey mind" or constant mental chatter, and ultimately achieve clarity and calmness. Meditation can be practiced while lying down, standing, playing an instrument, drawing, or any activity that allows you to focus on the present moment.

Meditation is a diverse practice with numerous techniques to suit different preferences and goals. Here are some common meditation techniques:

  1. Mindfulness Meditation:

    • Focuses on being fully present in the moment and observing thoughts, sensations, and emotions without judgment.
    • Sit comfortably, focus on your breath, and bring your attention to the sensations of each inhale and exhale.
    • When your mind wanders, gently bring it back to the breath or your immediate sensory experience.
    • Playing an Instrument:

      • Mindful Music Practice: When you play an instrument with full awareness and focus on the sound, rhythm, and physical sensations, it becomes a form of mindfulness meditation. You are fully engaged in the music-making process, which can be meditative and even therapeutic.
    • Taking a Shower:

      • Mindful Shower: A shower can be a meditative experience when you consciously pay attention to the sensations, sounds, and smells of the water, soap, and shampoo. Focus on the warmth of the water, the feeling of it on your skin, and the sound it makes as it flows. Let go of other distractions and thoughts.
  2. Guided Meditation:

    • Involves listening to a recorded meditation led by an instructor or using meditation apps.
    • The guide may lead you through relaxation, visualization, or self-improvement exercises.
    • Useful for beginners or when you prefer structured guidance.
  3. Body Scan Meditation:

    • Involves mentally scanning and relaxing each part of your body from head to toe or vice versa.
    • Helps release tension and increases bodily awareness.
  4. Loving-Kindness Meditation (Metta):

    • Focuses on generating feelings of love, compassion, and goodwill toward yourself and others.
    • Repeat positive phrases or affirmations such as "May I/you be happy, may I/you be healthy."
  5. Transcendental Meditation (TM):

    • Involves silently repeating a specific mantra to help calm the mind.
    • Requires instruction from a certified TM teacher.
  6. Zen Meditation (Zazen):

    • Often practiced in a seated position, focusing on the breath or a koan (a paradoxical question or statement).
    • Emphasizes simply sitting and observing the mind without attachment.
  7. Breath Awareness Meditation:

    • Similar to mindfulness meditation but with a specific focus on the breath.
    • Observe the breath's natural rhythm without trying to control it.
  8. Chakra Meditation:

    • Involves visualizing and balancing the body's energy centers or chakras.
    • Each chakra is associated with specific qualities and emotions.
  9. Yoga Nidra:

    • A guided relaxation practice that leads you into a state between wakefulness and sleep.
    • Promotes deep relaxation and is often used for stress reduction.
  10. Mantra Meditation:

    • Involves repeating a sacred word, phrase, or sound (mantra) to quiet the mind.
    • Common mantras include "Om," "So Hum," or personal affirmations.
  11. Walking Meditation:

    • Combines mindfulness with walking, focusing on the sensation of each step.
    • Particularly beneficial for those who find it hard to sit still for extended periods.
  12. Breath Counting Meditation:

    • Count each breath cycle, such as inhale (1), exhale (2), and so on, up to a predetermined number.
    • Helps improve concentration and awareness.

Remember that meditation is a skill that can be developed over time. Start with a technique that resonates with you and gradually explore others to find what suits your needs and preferences. Consistency and patience are key to experiencing the benefits of meditation.

Spiritual Actualization

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Spiritual means pertaining to the spirit, just as mental pertains to the mind. Where today, the mind is getting the job previously assigned to the soul, the latter is now taking on its original meaning as the seat of the spirit.
While most people have a reasonable grasp of what is meant by mind, many may argue about what is meant by soul or spirit. Psychologists have come up with many words such as ego, id, self, consciousness, sub-conscious, all trying to express different aspects of our inner self. When I talk about 'spirit' I mean that aspect of us with which we identify as 'I', that what thinks, feels, and speaks, when we do so. More importantly, it is that what drives us to action, i.e. that what makes us actualize, express our 'selves'.

Our spirit has a 'will' to live, to act, to do, to make things happen. It has an 'attitude'. It is 'happy', regardless the circumstances. It is, so to speak, free from body, emotions, and mind. It is as if, when we are born, we are encapsulated in this tiny little body, that we have to train to make it serve us in our quest. That quest is in our spirit. The body we were born with, our circumstances, our environment all make up our karma. It is the task of our spirit to match our quest with our karma, so they work harmoniously together, instead of throwing us into confusion, fear, and anger.

There is only one problem: What is our 'quest'? It takes all our life to find out 'who' we are, to 'know ourselves', to find out 'what we are to do', 'what we came for on this earth', i.e. 'what our quest is'. Our spirit knows the quest, but cannot put it in words. It puts it in inner voices, feelings, desires, wants, sensations of comfort and discomfort, happiness, uneasiness, attitude.

What do we make of our life and how we look for self actualization depends on how we permit our spirit to speak up. Also, on how we listen, how we let it guide us, on how open we are to its quest. We are driven by our spirit to act, to develop ourselves, to learn. Inaction, in contrast, is paralysis, which leads to stagnation, to waste the time we have in our life to accomplish our task.

Learning about spiritual development is a mental exercise, done by contemplation. But applying it is spiritual actualization. The latter is done by meditation. Meditation can done in many different ways. Essential in each method is to bring the mind to a state of quietness, emptiness, so we can listen to our spirit, and find out about our quest and its relation to our karma.

"Balony", I can hear some say: "you are the product of your inherited traits, and your environment, what you take for your spirit is nothing else than the sub-conscious residue of your mind's notions." "What drives you is what you have programmed your mind for, in earlier stages of your life." And I will agree that often that is what drives us, what motivates us, what makes us act, most of the time.

'Mental hygiene' is the exercise of cleansing the mind from old and especially detrimental programs. Positive thinking is the exercise of removing negative thoughts that have been programmed in at various times in our life. We can reprogram ourselves to operate in a more agreeable way. So what is the difference between the program in your mind and your spirit? Is spirit that what guides us in developing our own new and improved program?

Again, only meditation can tell, which brings us to our next topic."

Understanding Self with Different Perspectives

Define Psyche


the human soul, mind or spirit.

ego, inner self, persona, subconscious, true-being, etc.


  1. What tools or practices can help me achieve a greater understanding and balance of myself?
  2. How can these tools assist me in gaining a deeper understanding of myself and the world around me?
  3. Do I find myself acting from ego or my true self on a regular basis?
  4. Do I have access to tools that can aid in better understanding myself and the universe I live in?


Some tools and practices you can explore include:

  • Astrology
  • Chakra cleansing and activation
  • Metaphysics and the exploration of universal consciousness
  • Quantum physics and its implications on perception of reality
  • The Law of Attraction and manifestation exercises
  • Tarot card readings
  • Developing psychic senses
  • Emotional intelligence development

Ultimately, the goal is to find the tools and practices that resonate with you and support your personal growth and self-discovery journey. These resources can offer insights and inspiration, but your unique experience and perspective are what truly define your path to self-understanding and balance.

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